Book lovers are the perfect lovers

What kind of person are you?

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Are you that person who pretends to love books?

Or are you someone who actually loves books.

“How can I tell Kio!” I hear you cry, desperate to know which camp you fall into.

Well. What do your books look like?

Do you have and actually use (shudders) bookmarks?

Do you take books that you’ve read to charity shops and they accept them?

Do you sell your books online and they are in excellent condition?

Do you only read books sitting upright, turning the pages carefully so as not to crease?

When you take a break do you close your book and place it on a clean dry surface?

Do the books you own look as good as new and are in the same condition as when you bought them? (What on earth is wrong with you?)

If you answered yes to one of the questions above then you do not love books. You pretend to.

People like you are the reason why first editions exist. They shouldn’t exist. They should have been read into oblivion by somebody who loved it.

Books and the treasures within are supposed to live in your mind.

You are supposed to read them lying down, in the bath (even doing both at the same time)

You have to spill hot beverages and drop crumbs in/on them

Turn the pages with wet fingers, dog ear the corners when you stop reading a page

Break the spine.

Drop in the bath.

They’re to be fallen asleep on and squished under your body.

If you regularly do one or more of the above activities then you love books!

(I solemnly promise that the next blog will be sexual in some way, although I do consider being a lover of books an extremely sexy trait).

A new year...or is it?

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A year since we first came across Covid and yet…here we still are!

What a year it’s been! No Christmas celebrations, New Years Eve parties, birthday parties…let alone seeing friends and family and these events are just off the top of my head. Not much has changed at all from last year which is really disheartening to realise. In terms of the pandemic and how we have been existing? I cannot wait for some sense of long term normalcy to return.

My only interest in politics is simply knowing that it is generally attracts the self serving but my God how I wish there were someone capable of actually executing a plan to permanently end this nightmare!

It’s been almost a year since we were first introduced to the in-out-in-out hokey cokey type response to the pandemic. The relentless ‘well we don’t really have a plan let’s just play it by deaths, and by the way you’re all responsible for the deaths of the vulnerable next slide please’ method of (not) dealing with this disease.

Not a single day goes by without news on the economic, health and mental wellbeing impacts of the Covid pandemic. I’m tired of worrying about it on one hand, and on the other, tired of pretending it doesn’t exist and everything is a bed of roses. SM to a tee.

The impact of this pandemic has fallen most heavily on people living in deprived neighbourhoods, in precarious or low-income employment, homeless, in abusive familial or personal relationships. On a global scale the manufacturers and suppliers of the goods we insist on have been ravaged and poverty in developing countries could reach levels not seen for decades.

It’s no wonder almost everyone, including superiors I honestly rely on, are visibly in some form of distress. Many, if not most, of my friends have seen the industries they work in virtually disappear. Some have been lucky enough to be on furlough but most are not so fortunate. Regarding the self employed i.e. companions? Ha!

I do not know anyone who is not filled with anxiety and depression and it is unnatural not to feel this way, unless you are fortunate enough to have the social and economic resources and networks that buffer you from lockdown rules. Even with this luxury, isolation from the life we had is abnormal and unprecedented.

Silver linings, etcetera etcetera.

The blessing of focus and clarity.

I can’t really state that there has been anything ‘positive’ to come from this pandemic as it is a heart breaking situation that the entire world is facing. There are too many consequences. Anyway, and moving on, I will try my very best to not mention Covid from now on in. Though if the seo for this blog were ‘Covid’, it would finally tick all the boxes on the seo checker.

My small positives. Not positives per se, more things that aren’t completely negative. Small victories are still victories.

♥ A renewed interest in spiritually (this took me aback-give me all the inane spirituality quotes please!)

♥ Self reflection; objectively assessing, making and beginning to act upon concrete plans for the future, rather than muttering about them.

♥ Enforced solitude coupled with stress, are wonderful for fostering much needed time to focus on and adjust my plans and goals.

♥ Giving my client list a thoroughly good cleaning! As a consequence of the pandemic and client communications, a lot of self cleaning was involved. Much like the workings of a vagina.

♥ Increasing breast size from 36B to 36D. One veritable triumph that I am going to hold onto come hell or highwater!

How to Enjoy London with the ideal companion

Ebony Dinner Date Companion in London

Companionship fulfils a multitude of social and intimate needs

It can be a way to find a missing spark or passion that is missing in your day to day life. The need to explore desires and sexual fantasies. Though sometimes people seek out companions to simply spend time with a partner that understands your need for human connection, seduction and intimacy. I entered this world as a university student and quickly discovered there are many misconceptions about companionship. There isn’t a ‘one size fits all’ companion or client. That’s what makes it so exciting.

Being A Companion In London

Before the pandemic, which has altered life for many people, London was a vibrant and exciting place in which to be a companion. It has an array of nightlife, restaurants, modern and classical art galleries and museums, beautiful parks and historic hotels, Some of which have been the basis of many wonderful dates. Many of my clients are familiar with the city from previous business trips and so sometimes, playing the tourist was a wonderful experience that I sorely miss.

London Date Ideas

I love art and dining out so my perfect London date would combine the two. if I were being greedy we’d visit the National Portrait Gallery in Westminster which is a favourite of mine. Lunch at J Sheekey, a wonderful classic British restaurant would follow and end with private time in a beautiful luxury hotel.

What Makes Me An Ideal Companion

I would say I’m quite warm, lighthearted, non-judgmental and just plain curious about people! My degree is quite heavy so it’s nice to change tack and listen to people’s stories and life experiences without labelling them. This world attracts fascinating people and I adore finding out what makes people tick. Discovering why they studied the discipline they did, chose the career path they did…all useful research for me!

Regarding intimacy, I consider experiencing pleasure, sexual exploration and having an open mind as vital to our happiness. I revel in relaxed, intimate GFE private encounters, though consider myself vanilla with a hint of spice. ‘Never say never’ is a wonderful mantra to live by. Mutual respect, courtesy and communication allow this to happen. I make my clients, feel relaxed and be able to express how they feel and how they would like our time together to unfold.

My Ideal Date & Dating Turn Offs

An ideal date would be spending time with someone interesting, courteous and respectful. Someone who has taken the time to discover me and my interests, (we all leave breadcrumbs!) and brings a small gift, even just chocolates or a book or a card, makes me feel special! Unlike a relationship, and knowing that our encounter is temporary, I always feel it’s best to make it as wonderful and romantic as possible.

I don’t have many turn offs and to be honest I haven’t had any terrible dates yet, (knock on wood) but I imagine someone who has bad manners, is rude to waiting staff or unhygienic would definitely turn me off.

What Should A Gentlemen Do Prior To The Appointment?

A gentleman should approach me as he should all companions, by reading our website in full to get an idea of who we are and whether we’d be compatible. We have particular contact and screening methods detailed on our site and prospective clients must ensure they are comfortable with and can provide them. A perfect introductory email to me would contain a little introduction, something that tells me who you are and why you’d like to meet, your screening information and a range of dates and times we can meet. A compliment at the end never hurts!

Etiquette Rules To Follow

Just to be respectful, clean and courteous. Time is a precious commodity in life and when you have the chance to spend it with a beautiful woman in beautiful surroundings, treat it as a ‘real’ date and as such, talking about other providers is off limits. It is, after all, a wonderful chance to escape for a while.

Written for SimplySxy and published on December 3rd 2020.

A little bit of who you fancied, will do you good.

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With all of the world on pause at the moment, our minds tend to wonder, pondering hypotheticals and unrealised fantasies. One that crossed my mind was the question “if you could be transported back in time to any era, where would you go?” Frankly though, I didn’t have to marinate on this question very long. In fact, the answer came to me in a literal heartbeat. Without a doubt, I would go back to the 1970s.

A defining era

There was a certain elemental succulence to that era; a certain brazen sophistication combined with unabashed exuberance. Between the glittery glamour of disco and Studio 54 and the emergence of a confrontational, counter culture version of rock and roll known as punk, to the emergence of the most avant garde minds in design such as Vivienne Westwood, Yves Saint Laurent and Halston, to cinema breaking new, brave grounds (both inside and outside of the now dearly departed porno theaters)…the 1970s was a time of bold, unapologetic lusciousness. And what encapsulates that bold, unapologetic lusciousness better than a lush, full bush?

I am Woman

There is something about a full bush that symbolises something primal yet elegant and requires both haver and enjoyer to be sensually fully engaged, to take in the look, the feel, the aroma, the taste, the texture. It harkens to an awakening among women wherein we insisted that our beauty be celebrated in it’s natural state. It wasn’t that women were granted power by men during this time, but rather that they were connecting to the power they have had since the dawn of time. Strong and invincible, as the song goes. To me, having a natural bush continues to be a symbol of that feminine power: that verdant, natural power.

A reciprocal feeling?

And wouldn’t you love to bask in that very same power and beauty? Lucky for you, you’ve come across a London’s all natural, ebony escort, with a delicious full bush that will make you pine for the days of reading Playboy, just for the informative articles of course. I may not be able to travel back to that time. But when you spend time with me, you just might.

A quick check in!

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Beautiful times ahead!

It is such a beautiful day today, so hot and sunny! Helping us to forget, just a little, the terrible times of the last few months! I’m going out for a little bit of shopping and meeting family for a quick lunch, I hope I do not melt!

I have had so many adventures, experiences and wonderful memories of the past year and also very excited for what the future holds work wise and study wise in the year ahead. En route to post graduate study, I really have learnt and changed a lot of things about myself, my goals and of course, working.

I have had plenty of other things in my ‘normal’ life that have kept me occupied. Thanks to a special person and friends and family, I am really looking forward to life returning to some kind of normality, the type of rhythm that existed before the virus!

I was lucky enough to get away from London for a couple of days which was beautiful. When you live in London you think it’s the centre of the UK? Other cities are barren and devoid of culture, nightlife, lovely shops (!), when in actuality, they have all of these plus scenery, greenery, beaches and fresh air! In the future I will broaden my options in terms of settling down and living. I don’t want to live in a shoe box forever! Fortuitously, just before I left, I was contacted by a lovely favourite (I may have a few favourites!) to meet very soon and for hours! Hurrah!

Being a companion’s favourite client isn’t difficult if you are genuinely interested and care about them and do not see this as some kind of past time in which to spend time gossiping! There are much more exciting and pleasurable things to be doing with one’s time. Gentlemen are the ones who see this as it should be; a little private escape in which to explore, unwind and enjoy. Fortunately for me, these are the majority that I attract.

So anyway, it appears that September was a ridiculously distant time in which to resume companionship again and luckily others agree too! Four months is a quarter of a year for goodness sake! A hell of a long time! Have a few select clients I will see in August which is lovely, I’ve missed sex so much and have so much lingerie that I actually need (yes need) to show off in person! I absolutely am in love with my green ID Sarrieri set I’m wearing. I have a new addiction I cannot afford! Quarantine has been kind to my body, which is my nonsensical justification for this habit.

Lastly, (as one uses in a mediocre and sub par essay), I have vowed to write much better and focused blogs! I think the next one will be about my bush, you can’t get more focused than that, but would love to write about my favourite dates of the past year but don’t think this is very discreet. I may write instead about bucket list places I want to visit here and abroad! That would be a much better idea I think…

Some dates though, have not been the best but definitely very memorable and truly funny! I had a client whose sounds when he came were deafening, I’d consider them bellows rather than groans and I genuinely feared for my eardrums! Another came to the hotel dressed as some kind of pseudo police officer?

The tales I could tell you!

Or maybe not.

A brief Aside!

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Ramble, ramble, ramble.

One of my favourite sayings that I’ve loved since I was a child is: ‘If wishes were horses, beggars would ride’. It’s wonderfully sad. Well in the time of Corona, my personal revised version totally applied: ‘If well wishes were horses, I’d have a cornucopia of Arabians, Thoroughbreds, Shires…all sorts, except they’d be lame.

That is all I will say regarding this matter!

It’s far too late to waffle on now about the past month! I had actually written, (word has just had the sheer audacity to post a ‘clarity and conciseness’ warning here!) a very heartfelt, panicked and somewhat in despair blog post around March. Thankfully, it will never see the light of day but let’s just say that a disintegration and reawakening has occurred that I’m mostly keeping to myself. Reason being, It’s private and of no benefit to anyone.

As we have weathered most of the storm, (excluding the tens of thousands dead), the self-pitying moans of the forcibly isolated have quietened, (including mine), this is both a thank you and a what the hell is happening next, blog. Perhaps.

‘A brief aside!’ sounds like a bdsm trash romance set in a law firm doesn’t it? ‘He wondered what tantalising delectation her whip would bring forth, shivering naked in his chambers’. Or a a lingerie model pose! “Okay Kim, brief aside now please!”

Btw, lawyers love to think they’re interesting. Sadly they are not! Scarily good at bringing me to a swift orgasm though! Years of just talking and talking and talking must account for this deftness of tongue…IT guys run a close second (to being generally uninteresting, not the orgasm thing) and consultants…what good are they to man or beast?

Obviously exceptions apply to the aforementioned professions…

Ah yes, I’ve also vowed to be super positive from now on too! Taking up some past times which will promote physical and mental well being. People, and life in general, do contain really toxic aspects. Desperately in need of some respite. We all are truth be told.

Wish me luck as I will need it.

Many heartfelt thanks!

In the current climate, receiving tangible kindness and thoughtfulness is a great gift. There are so many adversities and challenges because of this pandemic that has altered daily life, work and economies globally. Having friends that work in different sectors and with heart breaking family situations, I understand that the situation for me is far better and less emotional than many I know.

Someone very kind and special reached out financially during this time and for this act I am beyond thankful! A kind, thoughtful and supportive person is indeed a rare find. In all areas of life it appears that the criminally dim, thoughtless and mean-spirited dominate!

Working part time and being quite low volume (I truly wish I had a higher tolerance level towards nonsense) means that not being able to work has been extremely challenging, especially with the added pressures of university work and exams. Expecting a client to take care of me didn’t enter my mind. Obviously they have their own work and family issues but the fact that he did will never be forgotten!

I’m eternally grateful that very special clients exist. Ones that do actually care about us as people and will help, unasked, with no strings attached. I hope that I will continue to stumble along the path of such altruistic and caring individuals that care about my future as well as their…you know!

Love me, love my butt.

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Ass worship. Why not?

Can I tell you a bit of a pervy secret? I’m sure I can – we’re all friends here.

Here’s the thing: I love stubble. The texture of it against my skin, the gentle scratching and nuzzling. Particularly when that stubbly face is rubbing snugly up into my most intimate place.

Have I mentioned before how much I love ass worship? Call it what you like: bottom, bum, ass, arse – all the same to me as long as your face is buried right in it. Ass worship is one of my favourite things – partly for the stubble, I won’t lie. It’s a gorgeous sensation: gentle roughness that adds to the naughtiness and taboo of having someone’s face pressed deep into me.

I like to lie on my stomach, back arched slightly to present my bottom in just the right position – pretty as a picture, and all ready for you to push your nose and mouth into. I have a pretty lovely butt, round and smooth and just right for worshipping, smothering, snuggling and nuzzling. I’m often told that it’s perfectly peachy, and I adore lying on the bed with it presented beautifully for someone. There’s nothing that makes me happier than a guy who wants to bury his face in it, feeling my warm cheeks press against his face.

Perhaps it’s partly the taboo – after all, we’re so often told that the bottom is a no-go area, despite it being one of the sexiest parts.

When I’m a Domme I love to use my bum to smother the face of the guy I’m with: pressing down onto him and intoxicating him with the scent and the sensation and the sexiness. Sometimes teasing with my butt crack just out of reach, and they think if they stick their tongue out far enough they’ll be rewarded with the taste of my warm skin. Sometimes going all-out as if I’m trying to suffocate them with the decadent joy of having my arse pressed right up against them, until they’re red-faced and gasping for air.

When I’m in a submissive mood, I love indulging in aftercare that focuses purely on my round bottom – men inspecting it closely, parting my cheeks and running their hands all over it. Squeezing and rubbing and kissing me all better after a beating.

I got distracted, didn’t I? I was telling you about stubble. I think some guys are nervous if they have slight stubble – they don’t want to scratch me or seem too rough. But just as there’s nothing to feel nervous of with the taboo of bottom worship, so there’s nothing to worry about if you have a five o’clock shadow – or more! In truth I adore the texture of it just as much as I love the naughtiness of butt worship. After all, my body truly can’t be worshipped enough…

What kind of person are you?

Ebony Dinner Date Companion in London

Are you that person who pretends to love books?

Further Reading

Ebony Dinner Date Companion in London

A new year...or is it?

Ebony Dinner Date Companion in London

A year since we first came across Covid and yet…here we still are!

Silver linings, etcetera etcetera.

The blessing of focus and clarity.

Further Reading

Ebony Dinner Date Companion in London

How to Enjoy London with the ideal companion

Ebony Dinner Date Companion in London

Companionship fulfils a multitude of social and intimate needs

Being A Companion In London

London Date Ideas

What Makes Me An Ideal Companion

My Ideal Date & Dating Turn Offs

What Should A Gentlemen Do Prior To The Appointment?

Etiquette Rules To Follow

Further Reading

Ebony Dinner Date Companion in London

A little bit of who you fancied, will do you good.

Ebony Dinner Date Companion in London

A defining era

I am Woman

A reciprocal feeling?

Further Reading

Ebony Dinner Date Companion in London

A quick check in!

Ebony Dinner Date Companion in London

Beautiful times ahead!

Further Reading

Ebony Dinner Date Companion in London

A brief Aside!

Ebony Dinner Date Companion in London

Ramble, ramble, ramble.

Many heartfelt thanks!

Further Reading

Ebony Dinner Date Companion in London

Love me, love my butt.

Ebony Dinner Date Companion in London

Ass worship. Why not?

Further Reading

Ebony Dinner Date Companion in London